The Greatest American "Interpersonal relations" Books of All Time

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Interpersonal relations

Interpersonal relations is a category of books that explores the dynamics of human relationships, including romantic, familial, platonic, and professional connections. These books delve into the complexities of communication, conflict resolution, empathy, and understanding, providing insights into how people interact with one another and how these interactions shape our lives. Whether exploring the intricacies of love, the challenges of parenting, or the nuances of workplace dynamics, books in this category offer readers a deeper understanding of the human experience and the importance of healthy relationships.

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  1. 26. Fates and Furies by Lauren Groff

    "Fates and Furies" is a novel split into two parts, providing two perspectives on a single marriage. The first half of the book, "Fates," is told from the point of view of the husband, Lotto, a charismatic but failed actor turned successful playwright, who views his marriage as happy and his wife as supportive. The second half, "Furies," is told from the perspective of his wife, Mathilde, revealing her hidden past and the sacrifices and manipulations she has performed to maintain their life together. The novel explores themes of love, secrets, and the different narratives created within a relationship.

    The 5418th Greatest Book of All Time
  2. 27. The Poet X by Elizabeth Acevedo

    "The Poet X" is a coming-of-age novel that follows the journey of a young girl named Xiomara, who uses poetry as an outlet to navigate her complex life. Set in Harlem, Xiomara grapples with her strict Dominican parents, her evolving understanding of her own identity, and her burgeoning relationship with a boy named Aman. Through her powerful and honest poetry, Xiomara finds her voice, confronts societal expectations, and discovers the strength to define herself on her own terms.

    The 5658th Greatest Book of All Time
  3. 28. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Gray

    This self-help book offers insight into the fundamental differences between men and women, suggesting they might as well be from different planets. It explores how these differences can create misunderstandings and conflicts in relationships, and provides practical advice on how to overcome these issues. The book emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and respecting these differences to foster better communication, understanding, and ultimately, stronger relationships.

    The 5817th Greatest Book of All Time
  4. 29. An American Dream by Norman Mailer

    The book is a narrative of Stephen Rojack, a decorated war hero turned professor, television personality, and philanderer who struggles with his inner demons and the existential dread of modern life. After murdering his estranged wife in a drunken rage, he embarks on a surreal journey through the seedy underbelly of 1960s New York, engaging in a series of sexual and violent encounters, and getting involved with a nightclub singer and the mafia. The novel explores themes of violence, masculinity, and American identity.

    The 5875th Greatest Book of All Time
  5. 30. The Marriage Plot by Jeffrey Eugenides

    This novel follows the intertwined lives of three college graduates in the 1980s. The story focuses on the romantic entanglements of Madeleine Hanna, an English major who is writing her senior thesis on Jane Austen and George Eliot, and her relationships with two men: Leonard Bankhead, a charismatic but troubled biology student, and Mitchell Grammaticus, a religious studies student who is in love with Madeleine. The narrative explores the complexities of love, mental illness, faith, and the relevance of the traditional marriage plot in a modern world.

    The 6432nd Greatest Book of All Time
  6. 31. Property by Valerie Martin

    "Property" by Valerie Martin is a thought-provoking novel set in the 19th century American South, where the institution of slavery is deeply ingrained. The story follows the complex relationship between Manon, a white plantation mistress, and Sarah, her mulatto slave. Through their contrasting perspectives, the book explores themes of power, race, and identity, shedding light on the harsh realities of slavery and the inherent cruelty of human ownership.

    The 6472nd Greatest Book of All Time
  7. 32. Habibi by Craig Thompson

    "Habibi" is a graphic novel that tells the story of Dodola and Zam, refugee child slaves who escape to the desert, where they rely on each other for survival. The story is a complex interweaving of themes including love, religion, exploitation, and the clash of cultures, told through a blend of Islamic folklore, the Qur'an, and contemporary issues. The novel explores the strength of human resilience and the deep bonds that can form even in the face of unimaginable hardship.

    The 6724th Greatest Book of All Time
  8. 33. The Spoils of Poynton by Henry James

    "The Spoils of Poynton" is a novel about a young woman named Fleda Vetch who becomes embroiled in a dispute over an impressive collection of art and antiques, known as the 'spoils', at the Poynton estate. Mrs. Gereth, the current owner of the spoils, wants to prevent her son Owen from inheriting them due to his engagement to a woman she deems unworthy. Fleda, who is in love with Owen, is caught in the middle of this conflict, leading to a dramatic exploration of morality, aesthetic appreciation, and the complexities of love and possession.

    The 6740th Greatest Book of All Time
  9. 34. Out Of My Mind by Sharon M Draper

    "Out of My Mind" is a captivating and heart-wrenching story that follows the life of Melody, a brilliant and determined girl with cerebral palsy. Trapped in a body that does not cooperate with her brilliant mind, Melody struggles to communicate and is often overlooked by those around her. However, her life takes an unexpected turn when she gains access to a communication device that allows her to finally express herself. Through perseverance and the support of her family and friends, Melody embarks on a journey to prove that she is more than her disability and has the ability to achieve greatness.

    The 7858th Greatest Book of All Time
  10. 35. Both Ways Is The Only Way I Want It by Maile Meloy

    "Both Ways Is The Only Way I Want It" is a collection of short stories by Maile Meloy that explore the complexities of human relationships and the struggles of everyday life. From a man struggling to keep his family together in rural Montana to a woman navigating her way through a complicated love triangle in Los Angeles, each story presents a unique and nuanced perspective on the challenges of modern life. With a keen eye for detail and a deep understanding of human nature, Meloy crafts a collection of stories that are both poignant and thought-provoking.

    The 7922nd Greatest Book of All Time
  11. 36. Winner Of The National Book Award by Jincy Willett

    The novel is a darkly comic exploration of the complexities of sibling rivalry and human relationships, centered around twin sisters, Abigail and Dorcas Mather. Despite their shared beginnings, the sisters' lives take divergent paths: Abigail becomes a reclusive writer, while Dorcas enjoys a more flamboyant lifestyle. Their bond is tested by a series of tragic and absurd events, including a murder at a family reunion. The story delves into themes of love, jealousy, and the search for personal identity, all while showcasing the protagonist's sharp wit and keen observations of the eccentric characters that surround her.

    The 8508th Greatest Book of All Time
  12. 37. Euphoria by Lily King

    "Euphoria" is a historical fiction novel set in the 1930s that follows three anthropologists - Nell, Fen, and Andrew - as they navigate the complexities of their personal and professional relationships in the remote jungles of New Guinea. As they study the local tribes and their customs, they become entangled in a love triangle that challenges their beliefs and threatens to unravel their work. The novel explores themes of love, jealousy, cultural differences, and the pursuit of knowledge.

    The 8571st Greatest Book of All Time
  13. 38. Taipei by Tao Lin

    This novel follows a young writer living in New York City who is struggling with drug addiction and emotional disconnection. He embarks on a series of failed relationships and travels to Taipei, Taiwan to visit his parents. Throughout the book, he tries to find meaning and purpose in his life, exploring themes of identity, memory, and the digital age. Despite his struggles, the protagonist's journey is filled with humor and insight, providing a unique perspective on modern life.

    The 8723rd Greatest Book of All Time
  14. 39. Disappearing Earth by Julia Phillips

    "Disappearing Earth" is a novel by Julia Phillips that explores the interconnected lives of the residents of a remote Russian peninsula after the disappearance of two young girls. Each chapter follows a different character as they grapple with their own personal struggles and the impact of the girls' disappearance on their community. Through vivid descriptions of the harsh landscape and the characters' complex relationships, Phillips weaves a gripping tale of loss, grief, and the enduring power of human connection.

    The 9425th Greatest Book of All Time
  15. 40. Intimacies by Katie Kitamura

    "Intimacies" by Katie Kitamura is a novel that follows an interpreter named Ana as she navigates her personal and professional life in The Hague. Ana becomes involved with a married man, explores her own desires and boundaries, and grapples with the complexities of language and communication. Along the way, she becomes entangled in a high-profile case involving a war criminal, forcing her to confront the moral implications of her work and her own actions. The book explores themes of intimacy, power, and morality, and raises questions about the nature of relationships and the limits of human connection.

    The 9633rd Greatest Book of All Time
  16. 41. Smile by Raina Telgemeier

    "Smile" is a heartfelt graphic novel memoir that follows the life of Raina, a sixth-grade girl who experiences a life-changing accident when she injures her two front teeth. Through a series of dental surgeries and awkward encounters, Raina navigates the ups and downs of middle school, friendship, and self-discovery. With her signature humor and relatable storytelling, Raina's journey of finding her own voice and embracing her imperfections is both inspiring and empowering.

    The 9700th Greatest Book of All Time

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