Jay Wiseman
American author, BDSM educator and sexuality educator, best known for the handbook "SM 101: A Realistic Introduction" and for work on BDSM safety, education, and related legal issues.
Books
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1. Sm 101
A Realistic Introduction
A practical, instructional guide for people interested in consensual BDSM that focuses on safety, clear communication, and informed consent; it teaches risk-aware negotiation, scene planning, and appropriate use of restraints and impact play while explaining anatomy, first aid, and legal/ethical considerations. The book offers step-by-step techniques, checklists, realistic scenarios, and guidance on aftercare to minimize harm and build trust between partners. Its tone is pragmatic and educational, prioritizing harm reduction and responsible practice over sensationalism.
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