Her Er Jeg by Jonathan Safran Foer

A sprawling, darkly comic family drama that follows a middle-aged Jewish-American husband and father of three as his marriage unravels and his sense of self is tested while a catastrophic international crisis forces wrenching choices about loyalty and belonging. Through interwoven scenes of domestic failure, sibling tensions, and revelations from family history, the novel probes masculinity, parenthood, faith, and the difficulty of truly being present for the people one loves, shifting between anguish and wry humor as its characters confront love, betrayal, and responsibility.