The Greatest Books of All Time on Intimacy

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The "Intimacy" category of books delves into the multifaceted nature of close personal relationships, exploring the emotional, psychological, and physical connections that bind individuals together. These works often encompass a range of genres, including romance, self-help, psychology, and memoirs, offering readers insights into the dynamics of love, friendship, and familial bonds. Books in this category may provide practical advice on nurturing and maintaining intimate relationships, delve into the complexities of human connection, or share personal narratives that highlight the joys and challenges of intimacy. Whether through fictional tales of romantic entanglements or non-fictional explorations of human behavior, the "Intimacy" genre aims to deepen our understanding of what it means to truly connect with others.

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  1. 1. Delta of Venus by Anaïs Nin

    "Delta of Venus" is a collection of fifteen short stories that explore the nature of human sexuality and eroticism. Set in various locations around the world, the book delves into a wide range of sexual experiences and desires, from the conventional to the taboo. The stories are as much about the psychology of desire and the power dynamics inherent in sexual relationships as they are about the act itself, and they are written in a lush, poetic style that is both explicit and deeply introspective.

    The 1582nd Greatest Book of All Time
  2. 2. Married Love by Marie Stopes

    A New Contribution to the Solution of Sex Difficulties

    The book is a pioneering work on birth control and sexual health, offering practical advice and advocating for women's reproductive rights and sexual satisfaction within marriage. It addresses the importance of mutual respect, emotional connection, and communication between partners, while also providing detailed information on contraception methods and family planning. The author emphasizes the significance of sexual harmony and the role it plays in a successful and fulfilling marital relationship.

    The 3877th Greatest Book of All Time
  3. 3. On Love by Alain de Botton

    "On Love" is a philosophical and humorous exploration of the complexities of love, told through a fictional narrative. The protagonist experiences the highs and lows of a romantic relationship, from the initial euphoria of falling in love to the despair of a breakup. The story is punctuated with philosophical musings on love, relationships, and human nature, providing an insightful and thought-provoking examination of one of the most profound human experiences.

    The 4068th Greatest Book of All Time
  4. 4. Happiness in Marriage by Margaret Sanger

    "Happiness in Marriage" is a guide that explores the dynamics of a successful and happy marriage. The author discusses the importance of mutual respect, understanding, and communication between partners. It also emphasizes the role of sexual compatibility and the importance of contraception in maintaining a healthy relationship. The book aims to provide practical advice and insights for couples to achieve a fulfilling and harmonious marital life.

    The 4222nd Greatest Book of All Time
  5. 5. What Belongs to You by Garth Greenwell

    The novel explores a complicated relationship between an American teacher living in Bulgaria and a young male prostitute named Mitko. The narrative delves into themes of desire, shame, and the legacy of the past, as the protagonist grapples with his own identity and sexuality. As the relationship between the two men evolves, the protagonist is forced to confront his past, his feelings of isolation, and the societal norms that shape his existence.

    The 4695th Greatest Book of All Time
  6. 6. Wayward Lives, Beautiful Experiments by Saidiya Hartman

    Intimate Histories of Social Upheaval

    The book examines the social and cultural history of African American women in the early twentieth century, particularly in New York and Philadelphia. It explores the ways in which these women defied conventional norms and constraints, creating new forms of intimacy, kinship, and freedom amidst the harsh realities of racism and sexism. Through a blend of historical research and imaginative reconstruction, the narrative delves into the intimate lives of young black women who sought to carve out a space for themselves, challenging the pathologized narratives that have often overshadowed their agency and innovation in the face of systemic oppression.

    The 5128th Greatest Book of All Time
  7. 7. The Joy of Sex by Alex Comfort

    A Gourmet Guide to Lovemaking

    This book serves as a comprehensive guide to human sexual behavior, offering detailed illustrations and instructions on various sexual techniques and positions. The author emphasizes the importance of mutual consent, respect, and emotional intimacy in sexual relationships, and promotes a positive and open-minded attitude towards sex. The book also provides advice on sexual health and contraception, making it a valuable resource for anyone seeking to enhance their sexual knowledge and experiences.

    The 5201st Greatest Book of All Time
  8. 8. The Poetics Of Space by Gaston Bachelard

    The Classic Look at How We Experience Intimate Places

    "The Poetics of Space" explores the relationship between spaces and the human psyche, particularly focusing on the importance and symbolism of intimate spaces like houses, rooms, and corners. The book delves into the philosophy and psychology of architecture, using poetic imagery and phenomenology to examine how people experience and inhabit personal spaces. It argues that these spaces hold deep emotional significance and that understanding them can reveal insights about memory, imagination, and the essence of being. Through its analysis, the text invites readers to reconsider the ordinary environments of daily life as rich landscapes of poetic expression and emotional depth.

    The 5958th Greatest Book of All Time
  9. 9. All About Love by bell hooks

    New Visions

    This book delves into the multifaceted nature of love, challenging the conventional wisdom that often leads to misunderstandings and heartache. It proposes a transformative approach to love, advocating for its recognition as a combination of care, commitment, trust, knowledge, responsibility, and respect. The author argues that our cultural assumptions about love are flawed and that by embracing a more nurturing and empathetic view, individuals can foster healthier relationships and a more compassionate society. Through a blend of personal anecdotes, philosophical insights, and practical wisdom, the book invites readers to reconsider their beliefs and behaviors around love, and to cultivate it as a verb rather than just an emotion.

    The 6222nd Greatest Book of All Time
  10. 10. No One Belongs Here More Than You by Miranda July

    This collection of short stories explores the lives of quirky, often lonely characters navigating the complexities of human connection and self-discovery. Each narrative delves into the intimate, sometimes awkward moments that define relationships, revealing the profound and often humorous ways people cope with their desires, fears, and vulnerabilities. Through a blend of surrealism and stark realism, the stories capture the essence of contemporary life, highlighting the beauty and strangeness of everyday experiences.

    The 7359th Greatest Book of All Time
  11. 11. Kama Sutra by Vātsyāyana

    The Classic Hindu Treatise on Love and Social Conduct

    This ancient Indian text is a guide to virtuous and gracious living that discusses the nature of love, family life, and other aspects pertaining to pleasure-oriented faculties of human life. It is a comprehensive manual on the art of love and sexual behavior, providing detailed advice on courtship, marriage, and the act of lovemaking. The text, while often associated solely with sexual positions, covers a wide range of topics including the duties and privileges of a wife, advice for courtesans, and methods to attract others.

    The 7941st Greatest Book of All Time
  12. 12. The Pure and the Impure by Colette

    "The Pure and the Impure" is a collection of vignettes and interviews that explore the spectrum of human sexuality and desire. The author draws from her own experiences and those of her friends and acquaintances, presenting a range of characters and situations that challenge conventional views of morality and propriety. The narrative provides an intimate and candid examination of love, lust, and everything in between, while also commenting on the social constraints and expectations of the time.

    The 8131st Greatest Book of All Time
  13. 13. Sonnets from the Portuguese by Elizabeth Barrett Browning

    "Sonnets from the Portuguese" is a collection of 44 love sonnets that express the poet's intense and passionate love for her husband. The sonnets are renowned for their emotional intensity, personal depth, and lyrical beauty. They explore themes such as love, marriage, beauty, and the transience of life, and are considered some of the most famous love poems in the English language.

    The 8186th Greatest Book of All Time
  14. 14. Brief Interviews With Hideous Men by David Foster Wallace

    This book is a collection of short stories that delve into the psyche of various men, exploring themes of loneliness, misogyny, and the complexities of human relationships through a series of interviews and narratives. The stories are characterized by their experimental structure, dark humor, and insightful examination of the human condition. Through these interviews and tales, the author presents a critique of contemporary society and the ways in which individuals navigate their existence and connections with others, offering a profound reflection on the nature of masculinity and the intricacies of the human soul.

    The 9225th Greatest Book of All Time
  15. 15. Life Adjustment Center by Ryan McGinley

    Two themes are presented in this book, firstly a collection of b&w studio nudes many with wild animals, an extension of the studio series "Everybody Knows This is Nowhere". The second features one of McGinley's core elements as a photographer, “capturing his subjects in dreamlike compositions, rich in motion and color, during recent adventures on the road”. The book is bound in a blue cloth with red text on cover and spine and a red stain to the page edges.

    The 9379th Greatest Book of All Time
  16. 16. Sexual Perversity in Chicago by David Mamet

    "Sexual Perversity in Chicago" is a play that explores the relationships and sexual dynamics of two young couples in 1970s Chicago. The narrative dissects the complex nature of sexual relationships, highlighting the characters' struggles with intimacy, communication, and emotional honesty. The play uses humor and sharp dialogue to delve into themes of gender roles, sexual politics, and the difficulty of establishing genuine connections in a culture saturated with false and damaging representations of love and sex.

    The 9992nd Greatest Book of All Time

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